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            theme:dark"><figure role="none" class="zpimage-data-ref"><span class="zpimage-anchor" role="link" tabindex="0" aria-label="Open Lightbox" style="cursor:pointer;"><picture><img class="zpimage zpimage-style-none zpimage-space-none " src="/Wittgenstein-s%20Language%20Games.jpg" data-src="/Wittgenstein-s%20Language%20Games.jpg" size="medium" data-lightbox="true"/></picture></span></figure><div class="zpimage-headingtext-container"><h3 class="zpimage-heading zpimage-text-align-left zpimage-text-align-mobile-left zpimage-text-align-tablet-left" data-editor="true"><span><b><span>California's Abusive Conduct Law&nbsp;</span></b></span><br/>​<span><b><span>Is a Cautionary Tale</span></b></span></h3><div class="zpimage-text zpimage-text-align-left zpimage-text-align-mobile-left zpimage-text-align-tablet-left " data-editor="true"><p></p><div><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-style:italic;">Effective workplace bullying legislation is a key goal of the various anti-bullying advocacy movements in the United States. Unlike civil rights legislation, the framework for worker abuse legislation is status-blind rather than defined as class-based. However, unlike violence in the home, the various advocacy factions, the legislators they court, and the business community that frames the issue in the United States have employed various language games to avoid addressing this devastating form of workplace abuse that continues to grow and contributes to suicide and gun violence (Dept. of Labor, 2026).</span></p></div><p></p></div>
</div></div></div><div data-element-id="elm_rKSJjTvPesNlj7Gw8cpx3A" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left zptext-align-mobile-left zptext-align-tablet-left " data-editor="true"><p></p><div><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Specific terms have come to dominate the ongoing conversations around workplace bullying in the United States. On the one hand, we, as a society, need to clarify the meanings of terms that affect the public good. In particular, these meanings help us pass legislation that creates legal precedent concerning harm to individuals, businThe concept of the language game was presented by the Austrian-British philosopher Ludwig&nbsp;Wittgenstein (1889-1951). Wittgenstein's main argument concerning language games was that &quot;the meaning of a word is its use in the language.&quot; This usage is not fixed. Instead, meaning is conveyed through context and use in special situations, or through an activity learned through practice or experience.&nbsp;Wittengenstein also famously argued that the limits of language define the limits of the world, stating, &quot;What we cannot speak about, we must pass over in silence&quot;&nbsp;(Biletzki, 2021).</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span style="text-indent:0in;"></span></p><div><p style="text-indent:0in;">Specific terms have come to dominate the ongoing conversations around workplace bullying in the United States. On the one hand, we, as a society, need to clarify the meanings of terms that affect the public good. In particular, these meanings help us pass legislation that creates legal precedent concerning harm to individuals, businesses, and institutions. On the other hand, the unexamined use of these words has already created opportunities for obfuscation with legislators and competition among activists.&nbsp;</p></div><p></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Nine language games are briefly reviewed in this essay. These language games concern the following terms: “justice for all,” definitions of workplace bullying &nbsp;(also known as abusive conduct, mobbing, or harassment and discrimination), &quot;with malice,&quot; psychological safety, psychosocial safety, the application of proposed legislation, inclusions and exclusions for targets of workplace bullying, policy backdoors, and organizational health and wellness programs. The policies represented in this essay specifically concern those developed by the institution where I was severely bullied and where I am now supporting another individual facing institutional harassment. Thus, this essay attempts to address these language games to broaden both the conversation and awareness.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #1: With Justice for All.</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">There is a story I want to share about the language game that accompanies the Pledge of Allegiance, which we were taught as students to recite each morning at school. I remember proudly standing at the side of the desk, hand over my heart, as I repeated these solemn words about &quot;Liberty and Justice for All.&quot; I really believed it, and it made me feel proud of my country as a little girl in grade school. </p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">It wasn't until I was severely bullied and attended a city council meeting where I was to accept an anti-bullying proclamation from the city government that the language game meaning of these words hit home. We all stood to say the Pledge, and when those words came up in the recitation, I almost fainted. I realized that there was no avenue for justice for me, even though I had done nothing wrong. All I had done was try to do my job to take care of myself and my family. The Professor had taken all of that away from me for her own selfish ends. The law was not going to protect me from this unfair damage to my career, reputation, health, and retirement. </p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #2: Workplace Bullying</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Workplace bullying has been referred to as abusive conduct, mobbing, and harassment in various definitions over the years. Schoolyard bullying was first researched in the late 1970's by Swedish-Norwegian Dan Olweus. Swedish-German researcher Heinz Leymann identified mobbing as an adult form of bullying and terror in the 1980s. <span>Leymann also characterized the phenomenon as a group action that occurs against one person. </span>Workplace bullying was coined as a term in 1992 by Andrea Adams, an English activist who wrote the book <i>Bullying at Work</i>.<span> The definition has acquired additional descriptive words over the years, and various researchers have identified behaviors that have been excluded.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The current </span>definition that has &quot;taken hold&quot; and is most often referenced in the United States was developed by the Workplace Bullying Institute. This definition is:</p><p style="text-indent:0in;">…repeated, harmful mistreatment of an employee by one or more employees; abusive conduct that takes the form of verbal abuse, (physical and nonverbal) behaviors that are threatening, intimidating or humiliating, work interference or sabotage, or in some combination.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The term &quot;abusive conduct&quot; for </span>workplace<span> bullying was also used in conjunction with the efforts by Dr. David Yamada and Dr. Gary Namie to pass the Healthy Workplace Bill from 2003 until 2025, when a new bill was introduced. This early definition of workplace bullying as abusive conduct was adopted by California in a &quot;training law,&quot; but with a twist.</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #3: &quot;With Malice&quot;</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">In 2014, California's legislature adopted the definition of abusive conduct for workplace bullying used in the <span>Healthy</span> Workplace <span>Bill</span>. While many of the basic behavioral constructs of bullying are encompassed in the definition, a language game has effectively rendered the code useless. <span>Abusive conduct is defined by the California Government Code, Section 12950.1, as: &quot;</span><span style="text-indent:0in;">workplace conduct, with malice, that a reasonable person would find hostile, offensive, and unrelated to an employer's legitimate business interests.&quot;</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Note the addition of the words &quot;with malice&quot; in the legislative rendition of the definition. As far as anti-bullying legislation, this law could have been a ground-breaking advance in the ability of workers to protect themselves from undeserved <span>abuse</span> in the workplace, and for workplaces, in general, to become less toxic. The definition is broad enough to include the acts of manipulation, gaslighting, and sabotage, along with the more common bullying behaviors, such as yelling, screaming, throwing things, denigration, calling people names, and the like. The definition, published in California Government Code Sec. 12950.1, was a key part of Assembly Bill 2503, legislation that required a segment in sexual harassment training to include (at a minimum) information on workplace abuse for employers with 5 or more employees. However, the reality is that the legislation has been more disappointing than helpful because of the &quot;malice&quot; addition, and it is here that the language game reveals itself.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Essentially, the legal standard of &quot;malice&quot; requires a publication of a false defamation that the author knowingly uses to slander the target. The language game here is that bullying at work is not about publishing <span>false</span> statements about a targeted employee. Bullying is both covert and overt, with the overt part most commonly enacted as a direct power abuse play between a more powerful and a less powerful person, while the covert part is what really harms workers the most. Why? Most people do not believe the target when they try to expose the manipulations that are taking place. No one is pre-publishing these specific manipulations in the office encounters, and the common law usage of malice has not been argued here. The end result of this language game is that using the words &quot;with malice&quot; wipes out any effective use of the &quot;hostile, offensive, and unrelated&quot; conduct that makes the toxic workplace experience feel like a torture chamber. </p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #4: Psychological Safety</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The main example of this language game is the adoption of the term &quot;psychological safety&quot; as a legislative effort to refer to the preferred state of the work environment when compared to toxic, abusive environments. This concept was briefly considered and rejected by </span>the<span> Rhode Island legislature in 2024, prompting Drs. Amy Edmondson and Michaela Kerrissey (May 9, 2025) to write an article contesting misguided beliefs in mandating its use through legislation. Dr. Edmondson is </span>a Harvard business professor who conducted a team study in 1999 that found psychological safety was a key aspect of efficient and creative teams. In this article, psychological safety &nbsp;is defined as:</p><p style="text-indent:0in;">…a shared belief that the team is safe for interpersonal risk taking. ..The term is meant to suggest neither a careless sense of permissiveness, nor an interpersonal risk-taking, but rather a sense of confidence that the team will not embarrass, reject, or punish someone for speaking up. This confidence stems from mutual respect and trust among team members. (p. 4)</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">The term originated during a period of increased interest in understanding and developing learning organizations, a concept promoted by Peter Senge in the 1990's with the publication of his book, <i>The Fifth Discipline</i>. The term psychological safety also originated in the context of the rapid technological challenges of the 1990s. The construct of &quot;feeling safe&quot; refers to modeling and facilitating a container space that enables employees to adopt learning behaviors amid the challenges posed by this rapid change, such as learning new computer applications, adopting new marketing approaches, and interfacing with international teams. Additionally, the expectations for instilling psychological safety were aimed at leadership, who were expected to help create an environment where people could speak up and challenge processes that didn't work.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">The greatest misconception about psychological safety is that it can be established through policy. In research studies, psychological safety is an organizational culture issue that arises from interactions among organizational members. As Dr. Edmondson explained (2025), &quot;</p><p style="text-indent:0in;">It doesn't sound terribly scientific because, in a way, it isn't. But learning behaviors are usually discretionary, somewhat effortful, and potentially embarrassing. They bring interpersonal risk. Saying, 'I need help. I'm not sure what to do here,' is a learning behavior.&quot; &nbsp;</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The shift in the &quot;language game&quot; surrounding psychological safety marks a significant transition from its academic roots as a catalyst for learning to its contemporary use in legislative efforts targeting toxic workplace behaviors. The original research focuses on the need for leadership to foster a climate in which team members can take interpersonal risks to improve organizational performance. The interactional environment of team cohesion is what supports the individual's ability to take chances at key moments. Current legislative movements, such as the&nbsp;<b>Workplace Psychological Safety Act (WPSA)</b>, flip the avoidance of the negative individual outcome as the purpose, redefining the term as a legal protection against psychological abuse, bullying, and mobbing.&nbsp;This &quot;flipping&quot; is becoming the current understanding of the term, and the act of flipping promotes the false expectation that this construct can be legislated into existence. </span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><span>Language Game #5: The Academic vs. Legislative &quot;Language Game&quot;</span></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><span><br/></span></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The academic definition and the emerging legal application of psychological safety start from fundamentally different premises: As defined by Dr. Edmondson, psychological safety is the shared belief that a team is safe for interpersonal risk-taking, such as admitting mistakes or asking for help. It is built interaction by interaction through leaders modeling vulnerability and responding productively to failures to drive innovation.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:9pt;text-indent:0in;"><span>&nbsp;In a legislative context, the focus flips to the&nbsp;lack of safety&nbsp;as a starting point. Proposed laws like the WPSA aim to prohibit psychological abuse—defined as conduct that results in the violation of an employee's right to a psychologically safe work environment. This shifts the focus from &quot;learning&quot; to &quot;prevention of harm,&quot; causing confusion about the term's meaning. </span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><span>Legislative Challenges and &quot;Equivalence&quot;</span></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><span><br/></span></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The difficulty in establishing a standard legal &quot;equivalence&quot; for psychological safety stems from several variables:</span></p><ul><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><b>Subjectivity and Individual Background:</b>&nbsp;Legislative efforts must grapple with the fact that psychological distress is often defined by what a &quot;reasonable person&quot; would suffer. For instance, California's SB 428 (effective January 1, 2025) defines harassment as conduct that would cause a reasonable person to suffer &quot;substantial emotional distress.&quot; This focus on psychological distress also does not encompass the very real physical harm caused by constant stress from the abuse. </li><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><b>Construct Ambiguity:</b>&nbsp;Experts argue that psychological safety is not a &quot;lever&quot; that can be pulled by policy alone; telling a team they must have it &quot;or else&quot; is unlikely to produce the intended climate of candor. As Dr. Yamada pointed out in a blog on the proposed legislation, it also sets the stage for confusion among team members about what constitutes an incident that harms psychological safety (https://newworkplace.wordpress.com/2025/05/).&nbsp; </li><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><b>Conflict with Performance Standards:</b>&nbsp;Some research suggests that while psychological safety is critical for creativity, &quot;too much&quot; of it might harm performance in routine jobs such as nursing, where following strict rules is essential. This worksite variation complicates the creation of a &quot;one-size-fits-all&quot; mandate.&nbsp;</li></ul><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #6: Psychosocial Safety</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">The term most applicable to workplace bullying, harassment, and discrimination is the construct &quot;psychosocial safety&quot; (Law et al., 2021). The National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health (NISOH) defines this construct with a focus on the environmental factors rather than on mandating psychological safety as a general container. Psychosocial hazards are defined as &quot;…<span> factors in the work environment that can cause&nbsp;</span><strong><span>stress, strain, or interpersonal problems</span></strong><span>&nbsp;for the worker &quot; (NIOSH, 2024). These include:</span></p><ul><ul><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><strong>Job Design:</strong><span>&nbsp;Work overload, lack of control, and role ambiguity.</span></li><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><strong>Organizational Factors:</strong><span>&nbsp;Downsizing, poor policies, and inadequate staffing, and</span></li><li style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><strong>Social Context:</strong><span>&nbsp;Lack of support from supervisors or coworkers and workplace violence or bullying (NIOSH, 2024).</span></li></ul></ul><p style="margin-bottom:9pt;text-indent:0in;"><span>This term has also been extended to a focus on the <strong>Psychosocial Safety Climate (PSC) of the worksite. </strong>Psychosocial safety climate (PSC) is defined as shared perceptions of organizational policies, practices, and procedures for protecting workers' psychological health and safety, largely stemming from management practices (Law et al., 2021). </span></p><p style="margin-bottom:9pt;text-indent:0in;"><span>As a theory, PSC builds on and extends the Job Demands-Resources (JD-R) framework, which holds that employee well-being arises from a combination of job demands (physical/mental effort) and job resources ( and autonomy). The JD-R framework also supports the proposition that organizational-level PSCs determine work conditions and, subsequently, psychological health problems and work. Under this framework, factors of psychosocial hazards that cause stress, strain, or interpersonal problems are: work organization, shiftwork, long work hours, fatigue, violence, bullying, and incivility.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:9pt;text-indent:0in;"><span>NIOSH and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) have developed a framework for p</span><strong><span>sychosocial safety called &quot;Total Worker Health®.&quot; </span></strong><span>This framework integrates protection from work-related safety and health hazards with the promotion of injury and illness prevention. It focuses on how the&nbsp;</span><strong><span>design and organization of work</span></strong><span>&nbsp;affect physical, psychological, social, and economic well-being. The model also prioritizes&nbsp;organizational-level changes&nbsp;over individual-level coping strategies to create a more sustainable and effective impact.&nbsp;However, this approach lacks the legislative reach to apply these protections to the millions of worksites in the United States, especially given the current administration's lack of support for workers. </span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #7: Proposed Legislation Inclusion and Exclusion</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">The latest version of Dr. David Yamada's efforts is the Workplace Bullying Accountability Act (WBPAA). This proposed legislation centers on the workplace taking primary responsibility for addressing workplace abuse. In this manner, the legislation mirrors the Workplace Violence Policy Act (WVPA) recently adopted in California. As one of my clients pointed out, the problem with both the WBPAA and WPSA legislation is that the protections are not broad enough. The proposed law does not include volunteer or internship jobs. This point should be seriously considered, as the job and career landscape is changing with the introduction of AI technology, and positions such as these may become even more valuable stepping stones to employment in the near future. My client performed a key elected community volunteer role. Even though the bullying outcome severely damaged their community standing, their health, and their business, recognition of the damage and the right to seek justice would not be covered under this law or other proposed legislation currently being promoted for consideration.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #8: Policy Backdoors</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Policies are not sacrosanct. Many policies ignore the basic premises required to address and handle workplace bullying. A complete policy would not only define the abuse, but it would also handle how the complaint was made, illustrate a neutral and trauma-informed investigation process, note how the parties to the complaint would be kept safe during the investigation, detail report issues that must be handled, and provide for real consequences as part of the outcome. </p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">In reality, most policies do not go much further than a definition of bullying that may or may not apply to the situation. Some of them get by with a statement that the behavior(s) are not allowed. This is not a policy. This is a vague statement standing in for a rule that does nothing.</p><p style="text-indent:0in;">I recently conducted a review of policies at UC Berkeley, where workplace bullying policies and reporting portals have been developed since 2010. As I reviewed these policies and the attached ethics documents, it was no surprise to me that, at some point in the relevant policy, a back door appears. Usually, the definition is narrowly and specifically defined to mimic the schoolyard version of bullying (Language Game #1). The focus on harassment also leaves the retaliatory and fraudulent bait-and-switch tactics and manipulative grant behaviors unaddressed. </p><p style="text-indent:0in;">(chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://policy.ucop.edu/doc/4000701/AbusiveConduct)</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">These policies also often lack a list of consequences or actions to protect or provide justice to the aggrieved complainant, leaving those issues to another organizational body to handle or decide. For example, the whistleblower's complaint filed with the Chancellor's office is forwarded to the UC Police Department (UCPD) (<a href="https://hr.berkeley.edu/policies/policies-procedures/university/whistleblower" target="_blank"><span>https://hr.berkeley.edu/policies/policies-procedures/university/whistleblower</span></a>). If you are whistleblowing about the lack of police accountability, how does that help? </p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">The UCPD was fined $2.4 million in 2022 for missing entries in case logs and misclassification of 1,125 crimes – primarily Cleary Laws. (11/25/25, https://www.ed.gov/about/news/press-release/us-department-of-education-initiates-review-of-university-of-california-berkeley-potential-clery-act-violations#:~:text=UC%20Berkeley%20has%20a%20history,and%20insufficient%20public%20crime%20logs.) According to the Chancellor's website, &quot;</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>The Jeanne Clery Campus Safety Act is a federal law that requires every higher education institution to collect and publish statistics on the specific list of crimes you see below. The disclosure of these statistics is intended to raise safety awareness at the institution and, in turn, make the campus safer.&quot; </span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>For a detailed list of these crimes, go to </span><a href="https://chancellor.berkeley.edu/clery-act-compliance/clery-crimes-and-locations"><span>https://chancellor.berkeley.edu/clery-act-compliance/clery-crimes-and-locations#</span></a><span>. Under-reporting these crimes leaves not only the campus but the entire Berkeley community at risk.</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span></span></p><div><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span></span></p><div><p style="text-indent:0in;line-height:150%;background:white;vertical-align:baseline;"><span style="color:black;">I am currently supporting a former UCPD employee who reported that the department continues to underreport Clery crimes. This under-reporting constitutes fraud against the Department of Education. </span><span style="color:rgb(36, 36, 36);">For universities and colleges to <span style="border:1pt windowtext;padding:0in;">receive federal funding from the Department of Education, they are required by the Clery Act to report Clery crimes accurately</span>.</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;line-height:150%;background:white;vertical-align:baseline;"><span style="color:rgb(36, 36, 36);"><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;line-height:150%;background:white;vertical-align:baseline;"><span style="color:rgb(36, 36, 36);"></span></p><div><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>This lack of reporting provides the community with a false sense of safety because now these random and violent crimes do not appear in campus reports. The individual involved felt that it was serious enough to warrant filing a whistleblowing complaint. This individual continued to discover and report other ways the police department was defrauding multiple government agencies. This person even emailed the UCPD Berkeley police chief directly with this information, but never received a response.&nbsp;</span></p></div><p></p></div><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>The police are not going to investigate themselves, and the union cannot help because it is ensconced within the police department. This individual is now being endlessly hassled by UCPD and the various police, highway patrol, and fire departments in the East Bay. This person is even being harassed by private companies that work closely with law enforcement and fire departments, such as Falk Ambulances in Alameda County, AMR ambulances in Contra Costa They have been fired and forced to move, living in 11 different locations in one year since they left UCPD, Berkeley, due to constant unwanted surveillance and emergency vehicles sounding sirens in a harassing manner in front of or near the places where they stayed. &nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Another serious Clery Act violation was uncovered separately in a Reddit post asking about the status of bullying at UC Berkeley. One respondent posted a petition/letter about sexual harassment in the Chemistry Department. This letter was addressed to <span>Dean Baranger, Chair Toste, Chief Diversity Officer Yáñez, and Assistant Provost Archer, and signed by no fewer than 786 students</span>. The allegations warrant serious investigation (<span>https://docs.google.com/document/u/1/d/1EWznCXh6s5jEw8XAgtODGQhJwhewNyg-BIrGcvTjyCI/mobilebasic</span>), but it appears nothing has been done. Sexual harassment complaints against UC Berkeley professors are filed with the&nbsp;<strong>Office for the Prevention of Harassment and Discrimination (OPHD) (https://ophd.berkeley.edu/)</strong><span>, which simultaneously serves as the campus Title IX office. However, once again, the UCPD is the investigating body. </span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Finally, another &quot;out&quot; is written into the policy about who should decide how these policies are addressed for professors. In a Code of Ethics for Professors and Teaching Assistants, the policy said it was up to the Deans to enforce the policies as they saw fit. <br/> (chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://vpf.berkeley.edu/sites/default/files/guidelines_re_bullying_8.5.19.pdf)</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">Huh. My bully was a former Dean who hired her replacement and the Assistant Dean. She had hired the HR employee who routed all telephone job interviews directly to the Professor so she could comment on each person who had worked for her. Except for that illegal disclosure, she abused me within the boundaries of the policies in play at that time (2001-2003) through manipulation and non-disclosure. She used her knowledge to bait-and-switch me out of $13,000 in my annual salary, a loss large enough to force me to work weekends just to survive. Six months in, when I finally located the intranet-posted policies explaining what she had done, she had already moved me into a category with no union representation. Now you should be able to understand why nothing was really done about her abusive and fraudulent behavior over the 15 years that she ran her research lab off campus. Everything she did was to skirt the rules, including how she handled the nepotism blocks on hiring, double-dipped on her donations to the school, and committed grant fraud while systematically bullying her financial analysts one after another. I was number 9.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p></div><p style="text-indent:0in;"></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Language Game #9: Organizational Health and Wellness Programs</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p>Andy Regal, author of&nbsp; <strong><i><span>Surviving Bully Culture:&nbsp;</span></i></strong><em><b><span>A Career Spent Navigating Workplace Bullying and a Guide for Healing,</span></b><span> forwarded the URL link for this </span></em><i>p</i>articular language game to me from a blog by Vintage Fit, an online wellness program app (<a href="https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.vantagefit.io%2Fen%2Fblog%2Fworkplace-wellness-is-a-lie%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C0533c94da3c749a538bc08de9bf642a7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C639119679156646020%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJFbXB0eU1hcGkiOnRydWUsIlYiOiIwLjAuMDAwMCIsIlAiOiJXaW4zMiIsIkFOIjoiTWFpbCIsIldUIjoyfQ%3D%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=Tx1aStbwSQvtB5UID3cjJq2eRntBW9a%2B0eC5OOQfJkM%3D&amp;reserved=0" target="_blank"><span>https://www.vantagefit.io/en/blog/workplace-wellness-is-a-lie/</span></a><span>). The basic question for this language game is: Why aren't workplace wellness programs working? According to the blog, &quot;The answer is simple. Most wellness programs target individual behavior because it's cheaper and avoids confronting organizational issues.&quot; (</span>Singh, 2025).</p><p><br/></p><p>Targeted workers are targeted because they are smart enough and trained enough to know that poor management, unclear expectations, incomplete communication, and a culture that does not support speaking up or solving the real issues create an environment of toxic stress for employees. Awareness is dangerous in environments where leaders and management &quot;look the other way&quot; when it comes to problem-solving or trying to do the right thing.</p><p><br/></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b>Conclusion</b></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><b><br/></b></p><p>What we advocate for filters into common language use. The language games discussed in this essay should be explored and open for discussion among advocates, so we do not end up with self-canceling language in definitions and legislation. It behooves advocates and allies to be aware of the way language is manipulated between the various parties if we really want to solve the problem. There are numerous other language games that should be consciously and deliberately addressed as we work towards solving workplace bullying. Another reason we should take extra care exploring these terms and their meanings is to avoid being fooled in backroom negotiations out of sight of those who really need stronger status-blind workers' rights legislation. </p><p><br/></p><p><b><u>References</u></b></p><p><span>Adams, A. (1992). </span><i><span>Bullying at Work</span></i><span>.</span></p><p><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>Biletzki, A.&nbsp; </span><i><span>(First published Fri November 8, 2002; substantive revision Wed October 20, 2021). </span></i><span>Ludwig Wittgenstein. <i>Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy</i>, <a href="https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/wittgenstein/">https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/wittgenstein/</a></span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>Cal. Gov. Code § 12950.1 (2025). </span><a href="https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=12950.1.&amp;lawCode=GOV"><span>https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=12950.1.&amp;lawCode=GOV</span></a></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;">Edmondson, A. (1999). Psychological safety and learning behavior in work teams. <i>Administrative Science Quarterly</i>, 44(2), 1-8392</p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;">Edmondson, A. &amp; Kerrissey, M. J. (May 9, 2025). What people get wrong about psychological safety. Harvard Business Review, May-June 2025,https://hbr.org/2025/05/what-people-get-wrong-about- psychological-safety</p><p style="margin-bottom:9pt;"><span>Idris, M A., Dollard, M. F., Coward, J., Dormann, C. (2012). Psychosocial safety climate: Conceptual distinctiveness and effect on job demands and worker psychological health, Safety Science, 50(1),19-28, ISSN 0925-7535, <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssci.2011.06.005">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssci.2011.06.005</a><span>. (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0925753511001421)</span></span></p><p><span>Law R, Dollard MF, Tuckey MR, &amp; Dormann C. &nbsp;(2011.) Psychosocial safety climate as a lead indicator of workplace bullying and harassment, job resources, psychological health and employee engagement. Accid Anal Prev. 2011 Sep;43(5):1782-93. doi: 10.1016/j.aap.2011.04.010. Epub 2011 May 4. PMID: 21658506. </span></p><p><span><br/></span></p><p><span>National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health. (2024, April 10).&nbsp;</span><i><span>An urgent call to address work-related psychosocial hazards and improve worker well-being</span></i><span>. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/niosh/blogs/2024/workplace-psychosocial-hazards.html" target="_blank"><span>https://www.cdc.gov/niosh/blogs/2024/workplace-psychosocial-hazards.html</span></a><span>&nbsp;</span></p><p><br/></p><p>Senge, P. M. (1990).&nbsp;<i>The Fifth Discipline: The Art and Practice of the Learning Organization, </i>&nbsp;New York: Doubleday/Currency.</p><p><span>&nbsp;</span></p><p><span>UC Chancellor's Office – page on Clery Crimes</span></p><p style="margin-left:1in;"><a href="https://chancellor.berkeley.edu/clery-act-compliance/clery-crimes-and-locations"><span>https://chancellor.berkeley.edu/clery-act-compliance/clery-crimes-and-locations#</span></a><span>. </span></p><p><span>&nbsp;</span></p><p><span>UC Policy Links:</span></p><p style="margin-left:1in;"><span>https://ophd.berkeley.edu/policies-and-procedures/policies-and-procedures-faculty</span></p><p style="text-indent:0in;">(chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://policy.ucop.edu/doc/4000701/AbusiveConduct)</p><p style="text-indent:0in;">(chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://vpf.berkeley.edu/sites/default/files/guidelines_re_bullying_8.5.19.pdf)</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><br/></p><p><span>US Department of Education (11/25/2025). </span>Press Release: U.S. Department of Education Initiates Review of University of California, Berkeley for Potential Clery Act Violations, https://www.ed.gov/about/news/press-release/us-department-of-education-initiates-review-of-university-of-california-berkeley-potential-clery-act-violations#:~:text=UC%20Berkeley%20has%20a%20history,and%20insufficient%20public%20crime%20logs.) </p><p><br/></p><p><span>US Department of Labor (2/21/2026).</span> DOL Workplace Violence Program. <a href="https://www.dol.gov/agencies/oasam/centers-offices/human-resources-center/policies/workplace-violence-program#:%7E:text=dealt%20with%20appropriately.-%2CPolicy%2C%20Purpose%2C%20and%20Scope%2Cspill%20over%20into%20the%20workplace">https://www.dol.gov/agencies/oasam/centers-offices/human-resources-center/policies/workplace-violence-program#:~:text=dealt%20with%20appropriately.-,Policy%2C%20Purpose%2C%20and%20Scope,spill%20over%20into%20the%20workplace</a>.</p><p><br/></p><p>Singh, S. (Dec. 5, 2025). Employees are exhausted, and wellness is just a band-aid. <i>Vintage Fit. </i><a href="https://www.vantagefit.io/en/blog/workplace-wellness-is-a-lie/"><span>https://www.vantagefit.io/en/blog/workplace-wellness-is-a-lie/</span></a><span>.</span></p><p>Yamada D. (March 14, 2023). Minding the Workplace: Briefing memo on the Healthy Workplace Bill. https://newworkplace.wordpress.com/?s=Healthy+Workplace+Bill&amp;submit=Search</p><p><br/></p><p>Yamada D. (May 19, 2025). Minding the Workplace: Harvard Business Review: Leading workplace psychological safety experts oppose psychological safety legislation. https://newworkplace.wordpress.com/2025/05/</p><p style="text-indent:0in;"><span>&nbsp;</span></p></div><p></p></div>
</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 20:40:35 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Broken Sink Syndrome]]></title><link>https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/blogs/post/the-broken-sink-syndrome</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/20250610_114359.jpg"/>For 15 years, I lived with a broken sink.&nbsp; &nbsp; The sink was still whole when I was bullied and blocked from working by a university professor. I ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_KhB2DqBUSYq1ggznfr5IUw" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_oXieW3FZS2ipuwnP4KTwTA" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_nNoS26AjQhSQ_KntfhAdEA" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_Y-DVT8U4RCGCgzijGsv8qg" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center zptext-align-mobile-center zptext-align-tablet-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"></p><div><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>For 15 years, I lived with a broken sink.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>The sink was still whole when I was bullied and blocked from working by a university professor. </span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>I could not get a job, no matter how hard I tried. </span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span>The sink first cracked right after my husband, and I parted ways with his family and stopped communicating because my in-laws had supported my brother-in-law and sinister-in-law (no misspelling here) in their efforts to push us into bankruptcy. They did this because they were threatened by my efforts to earn a graduate degree&nbsp;– a choice I made out of necessity. I wasn't allowed to speak at the dinner table because every time I opened my mouth, the screaming sinister-in-law would &quot;go off.&quot;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:justify;"><span><br/></span></p><p><span></span></p><div style="text-align:justify;">The sink cracked more after I worked for two female consultants who both bullied me by making up stupid scenarios about why I did not deserve payment for my work.</div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">To deal with the broken sink, I found a plastic dishpan used by waiters to bus dishes. My husband covered the enlarging crack with black duct tape. In other words, I covered up the fissure in my life just as bullying had caused me to act. I couldn't see the crack, but like my anger over being bullied, I knew it was there every time I removed the dish pan to clean it. The black tape showed every food particle and muck left behind from washing dishes. It became an unconscious symbol of the damage that bullying had caused in my life.&nbsp;</div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">Like the family, the sink should not have cracked. We had purchased it new and inserted it ourselves. However, the sink – designed to help us keep our dishes clean – did not measure up to the job – just as the family sheltered the perpetrator of my ruined educational goals and ignored both my husband's and my pleas for help. Over time, the sink became a symbol of everything that was wrong with my life – the abuse and lack of support by the family, my inability to find new work, the destruction of a paid internship in my new field of work by my brother-in-law dumping an estate on me, the shrinking of my new work network due to the bullying of the female consultants and the Professor; the lack of money I had to fix the sink –or anything else in my life. At one point, I found myself conducting daily online surveys for quarters and collecting discarded cans on my daily walks. I had no other means to support myself, and spending hours submitting resumes only to be ghosted after the first interview where my references were vetted – left me feeling worse and worse.&nbsp;</div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">After all, I had graduated from college Phi Beta Kappa, cum laude. Even that hard-won accomplishment did not mean anything to potential employers after the Professor had her say. (And yes, I had been a witness to her passing on all kinds of comments about an individual worker beyond just confirming that someone had worked for her). I didn't have money to fight the retaliation, even if I could have found a lawyer to represent me.&nbsp;</div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">Eventually, things changed. The Professor died at her desk, and the Huffington Post and the Clearing House for Public Integrity revealed her falsified statistics. I finally got a job that allowed me to overcome whatever negative comments were being told about me by the female consultants. The family stopped trying to hoover us back into the fold - even though they never apologized for, nor paid for, the extensive financial and educational damage they caused.&nbsp;</div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div></div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">This last month, after finally paying down all my school debts (tripled by my in-laws), my husband and I finally fixed the broken sink. I realized that I had used that cracked sink to punish myself for being bullied, even though I knew I was ultimately not at fault for the bullying that had happened to me. I had used that sink as self-punishment. and suddenly, that symbol was gone.&nbsp;</div></div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;">I wrote a book titled &quot;Ten Steps to Overcome Workplace Bullying.&quot; I've now decided there may be an eleventh step that arrives as we finally overcome the damage. After I was left to sort out the problems caused by multiple bullies, I had no choice but to find a new way forward. Thus, this step represents what finally pushes us to repair the abuse that was done while the abuser(s) continue to deny the damage they caused. This step enables us to resolve the anger within ourselves, even as it preserves our right not to forgive.&nbsp;</div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div><div><div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;"><span>That&nbsp;made&nbsp;me&nbsp;wonder:&nbsp;Do&nbsp;we&nbsp;all&nbsp;carry&nbsp;a&nbsp;symbol&nbsp;of&nbsp;a&nbsp;broken&nbsp;sense&nbsp;of&nbsp;self&nbsp;with&nbsp;us&nbsp;long&nbsp;after&nbsp;</span>we've&nbsp;been&nbsp;bullied&nbsp;out&nbsp;of&nbsp;our&nbsp;jobs&nbsp;and&nbsp;our&nbsp;ability&nbsp;to&nbsp;take&nbsp;care&nbsp;of&nbsp;ourselves?&nbsp;<span style="width:14px;">&nbsp;</span></div></div></div><div><div><div style="text-align:justify;"><span><br/></span></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><span>Let&nbsp;me&nbsp;know&nbsp;in&nbsp;the&nbsp;comments&nbsp;below.&nbsp;</span></div></div></div></div></div></div><div style="text-align:justify;"><br/></div></div><p></p></div><p></p></div>
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</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2025 22:54:59 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Union Stewards Can Stand Up Against Workplace Bullying ]]></title><link>https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/blogs/post/how-union-stewards-can-stand-up-against-workplace-bullying</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/Union Support Workers-sm.jpg"/>For the past five months, I have been working on finalizing the second edition of The Union Steward's Guide to Dealing with Workplace Bullying. This was a book that refused to settle down and often mirrored the chaos in our national environment. Minor errors and printing problems kept popping up.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_j1_ifhAZRm-hwV4KAG_n6Q" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_YZsZ3matT2OUHJdOBiqrmg" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_9fLpRbJLTZG9-UBbAyptVg" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_gbPJOYHnTyugMoje9BkTDQ" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left zptext-align-mobile-center zptext-align-tablet-center " data-editor="true"><p></p><div><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>For the past five months, I have been working on finalizing the second edition of </span><span style="font-weight:700;">The Union Steward's Guide to Dealing with Workplace Bullying.</span><span> This was a book that refused to settle down and often mirrored the chaos in our national environment. Minor errors and printing problems kept popping up. Even as I worked on sections covering the backup support of federal agencies that were being dismantled, I persevered, maintaining my faith in a judicial system that would not allow an authoritarian despot to strip away the few protections that most workers have. Of course, these are not the same agencies that Trump attempted to dismantle in 2016 with his first attempt to undermine worker protections. However, the fact that they still exist is hopeful when faced with an administration that relies on retaliation as a means of governance.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>The fact is that unions represent one of the most powerful means of protection for workers in the United States, despite their tendency, like many organizations, towards toxicity and corruption. This is why Trump wants so desperately to dismantle the National Labor Relations Board. Unions—despite their many problems —still represent a form of democracy in action while providing much-needed and seldom available direct support in the working environment. This support depends on well-trained union stewards who are supported by their organization. This training is what </span><span style="font-weight:700;">The Union Steward's Guide</span><span> hopes to provide.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>Union stewards and their bargaining unit counterparts have the distinct advantage of being equal to management in terms of worker protections against unreasonable, discriminatory, and harassing behaviors. While this</span><span style="font-weight:700;"> Union Steward's Guide</span><span> primarily focuses on California State government workers, the book also provides a process map for determining how to build a bullying case that will withstand abusive management, along with strategy tips and communication tips for dealing with abusive managers. One chapter focuses on supporting the member who is often stressed and suffering from trauma due to undeserved abuse.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>My co-author, Jeffrey Recht (retired. SEIU Local 1000 steward), and I hope this book will find additional stewards in other states who will want to work with us to create training guides to detail the laws and pathways available in their states, along with their hard-earned strategy tips and insights. Overall, we hope this training approach can strengthen the union's stance against workplace bullying and harassment.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>The United States of America clearly has a bullying problem that needs to be addressed from the top down. We are currently seeing the results of what a bully can do to federal worker protections and the chaos that results from narcissistic authoritarianism as an approach to a &quot;management style.&quot; Bullying is an excuse to abuse. It has never been a management style that works. It harms workers, makes them sick, damages their brains, and affects families in the most negative ways possible.</span>&nbsp;</p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><br/></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>Workplace bullying is like having domestic violence in the workplace. It's long past time for states to adopt a solid anti-bullying law that holds abusers accountable and protects whistleblowers and targeted workers from being harmed for simply doing their jobs and being accountable to the rules. Companies (and the federal government) should be willing to extend a duty of care to their employees to protect them from this undeserved abuse, often from those who are their best employees and most valuable yet unrecognized assets.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">The Union Steward’s Guide to Dealing with Workplace Bullying: Featuring the Bad Boss Campaign </span><span>is currently available on Amazon.com for a discounted price in order to make it more accessible in these times of whiplash tariffs and climbing expenses.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;font-size:20px;">Take a Stand Against Workplace Bullying</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span>Now more than ever, union stewards and worker advocates must be equipped with the tools and knowledge to defend their members from abuse, retaliation, and toxic management. </span><span style="font-weight:700;">The Union Steward’s Guide to Dealing with Workplace Bullying </span><span>is more than a book—it's a battle plan for protecting workers and rebuilding a culture of respect and accountability in our workplaces.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Grab your copy today at a discounted price on Amazon: <a href="https://amzn.to/4dBRlOM" title="https://amzn.to/4dBRlOM" target="_blank" rel="">https://amzn.to/4dBRlOM</a></span></p><p style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Know a fellow steward or union leader?</span><span> Share this with them. Together, we can strengthen the fight for fairness and dignity on the job.</span></p></div><p></p></div>
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</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2025 23:45:39 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[How We Get Trapped:  The Narcissistic Promise and Challenge]]></title><link>https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/blogs/post/how-we-get-trapped-the-narcissistic-promise-and-challenge</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/Broken promises-2.jpg"/>I wrote this blog several years ago after reading Shahida Arabi's excellent book entitled Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare . With Trump's second ter ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_q-JaQhImSm-qDFGvecMQlQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_aBJTljGLTteGci27Sv9wpQ" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items-flex-start zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column="false"><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_9h8UPXxHsiCm1iIchoXKig" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-6 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- zpdefault-section zpdefault-section-bg "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_O6iVobPv3sCmQz5Ez_eLXg" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_O6iVobPv3sCmQz5Ez_eLXg"].zpelem-text { margin-block-start:26px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left zptext-align-mobile-left zptext-align-tablet-left " data-editor="true"><div style="color:inherit;"><p><br/></p></div></div>
</div></div></div><div data-element-id="elm_6GBWOGiPZSkAyNWEIAStmQ" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items-flex-start zpjustify-content-flex-start zpdefault-section zpdefault-section-bg " data-equal-column="false"><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_OimriQg1gvbFK02xwAaIGw" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- zpdefault-section zpdefault-section-bg "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm__Yz61T4hhCFrxrDKGUMrPw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left zptext-align-mobile-left zptext-align-tablet-left " data-editor="true"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><p><span style="font-size:16px;">I wrote this blog several years ago after reading Shahida Arabi's excellent book entitled <i>Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare</i>. With Trump's second term just beginning, I thought a return to the concept of the narcissistic pattern would be appropriate. In Arabi's first chapter, <u>Recognizing the Narcissist</u>, she described the abuse cycle of this relationship as Idealize, Devalue, Discard, Destroy, and Hoover. I'd like to expand on the &quot;Idealize&quot; section that she described as the &quot;honeymoon phase, where I was properly 'groomed,' complimented, flattered, placed on a pedestal, followed by incidents of devaluation littered throughout the idealization phase.&quot;&nbsp; (p. 45)</span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;">I call my experience of the idealization phase &quot;the narcissistic challenge,&quot; and it is always tied to a promise. Many of the narcissists in my life have used it--an aberrant serial bully professor at a world-class university, my mother-in-law, and two female consultants that I worked for. It has been one of my most sensitive traps based on a constant need to prove myself and to excel. (Being raised by abusive parents will do this to you.)&nbsp; As far as weaknesses go, this need to value myself in the workplace by meeting the needs of my employer should fall under &quot;employee engagement.&quot;&nbsp; Unfortunately, because we are discussing narcissists, the narcissistic promise and challenge are always boosted by acts of deceit, manipulation, and devaluation, in which the stakes for success are raised ever higher. Ultimately, success is impossible because the narcissist does not want you to succeed, and they are in control of the game.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;">In my case, this narcissistic promise and challenge was marked by a &quot;you are special&quot; ploy that was designed to set me apart from some other person:&nbsp; a former or current employee, a sibling, or another family member. It always played to my strengths with a false promise that I would be rewarded:&nbsp; receiving a needed boost in pay, a position, or some special item I needed. However, the promise was a trap that was never fulfilled. No matter how hard or long I worked, the work was devalued, and the challenge to achieve the promise was replaced by another challenge with a higher bar. This increasing challenge was presented as, &quot;Well, if you just do this one more thing, then I can do this for you. However, you are so much better than the last person. I'm sure you will have no problem doing this.&quot;&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;"><br/></span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;">You can see how seductive this proposition can be in the workplace or in government, especially if the narcissist has already placed you in a position of dependence. But the dependence is the point; the promise replaced orput off by another challenge or yet another promise is designed to keep you hooked into the narcissist and waiting and hoping endlessly for that promise to be fulfilled – whether it is that promised salary or a lower price for groceries. For the narcissist, this is a source of pleasure or satisfaction of just getting another one over on you in a continuing cycle of abuse. By now, some disappointed voters are waking up to this ploy.</span></p></div></div></div></div>
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During the initial Internet &quot;dot.com&quot; expansion into commerce, I supervised a secretarial service pool in a large law firm that operated 24/7 to keep up with the work. The workplace bullying followed what is now a recognized pattern: An inexperienced department manager replaced a highly experienced manager who left for another job. The new manager developed allies who believed they deserved more than they were getting. They started pushing out perceived rivals and blocking work for &quot;unliked&quot; supervisors to obtain more. A fellow supervisor who should have been promoted to the department manager position was targeted for removal. When a part-time weekend secretary passed away due to overwork and high doses of Fen-Phen, this supervisor was blamed. Chaos ensued. Gossip and loyalties tore apart a once cohesive and supportive secretarial service pool. Workers became fearful and departed, leaving the department short-staffed.</span></p></div></blockquote><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 40px;border:none;padding:0px;"><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><span style="font-size:16px;">The off-hours phone calls from crying secretaries sent me back to college. I thought adding letters behind my name would help others believe me when I spoke about the anti-business behavior I had experienced. It did not. When I moved on to academia, I learned firsthand that the horror and denial of workplace bullying existed outside law firms. Earning a degree with honors did not protect me. Instead, it made me a naïve target for sabotage by a manipulative boss gaming the system. The professor blocked me from working for nine years after deliberately overworking and underpaying me in a bait-and-switch scheme. The stress from the overwork scheme made me so sick I could not work for over three years. As one of the continuously disappearing financial analysts, I was number nine over the 15 years of her tenure. Because of these two experiences, I became an anti-bullying advocate. I wrote a book on the bullying cycle. I co-authored another book with a union steward for union stewards in California. I have supported and coached targets through the workplace bullying cycle for over 20 years.</span></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">Recently, I became reacquainted with the trajectory of cyber-bullying in Silicon Valley's startup culture. Cyberbullying is defined &quot;as an aggressive, intentional act carried out by a group or individual, using electronic forms of contact, repeatedly and over time against a victim who cannot easily defend him or herself&quot; (Smith et al., 2008, p. 376). The difference is that work tools become the source of trauma workers must face whenever they attempt to conduct business. Like in-person bullying, the outcomes for the target replicate face-to-face bullying in the work environment, leaving an adverse impact on an individual's physical and mental health (Rao &amp; Rao, 2021). Symptoms of being cyber-bullied include depression, insomnia, loss of productivity and engagement, lowered job satisfaction, and job loss. Organizational outcomes result in formal complaints with regulatory agencies and lawsuits against the offending company.</span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">The young woman who contacted me was cyberstalked after working at a startup AI robotics company – one of many new ventures taking over the Valley. Cyberstalking involves the repeated and deliberate use of the Internet and electronic communication tools to frighten, intimidate or harass someone&quot; (Brown et al., 2017, p. 57). This woman had been doxed and received cryptic messages indicating journalists were writing about her. Simultaneously, she continually received messages from other unknown individuals that her home security and computer cameras had been hacked. After law enforcement came and went, she received more messages that calling the police would accomplish nothing. Her crime was refusing a date request sent by email. </span></p></div></blockquote><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 40px;border:none;padding:0px;"><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">This notice of cyber-stalling preceded several more women suddenly posting about this problem in my response to my posts on LinkedIn and SafeHarbor, a support community for targets that I moderate. The women told a similar story of stalkers trolling on dating and support forums, attempting to establish relationships that quickly turned sour. They all complained about the impossibility of stopping this technology-enabled harassment that followed them everywhere. </span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><span style="font-size:16px;">What is particularly disturbing and terrorizing is the community of like-minded allies the cyberstalker recruits to support the cyberstalking project on Internet forums like 8chan, 4chan, Anonymous, and KiwiFarms (Cross, 2019; Nieborg &amp; Foxman, 2018). On these forum sites, the original complainant can create a profile of the target, establish a justification for revenge, and recruit and challenge followers to take up the cause against the target. If you are female, the language in messages becomes increasingly sexualized and denigrating, while challenges issued by the original stalker to help stalk the target increasingly feel like a game reminiscent of the sub-culture of feminist and anti-trans animosity organized around #Gamergate in 2014 and 2015 (Cross, 2019; Nieborg &amp; Foxman, 2018). The technological sophistication of these group attacks means the stalking can appear through home security and computer cameras, social media sites, and doxing -- spreading private information online without the target's knowledge or permission.) Unfortunately, ongoing engagement in online incel forums affected participants' changes in their emotional experiences and online radicalization about women through the development of hate echo chambers (de Roos et al., 2024). Internet use disorder has also been studied as a precursor to cyberstalking behavior (Floros &amp; Mylona, 2022).</span></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p></div><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><span style="font-size:16px;">According to SafeHome.org, 7.5 million people experience cyberstalking yearly, and 80% of victims are tracked using technology. Cyberstalkers (61%) use everyday communication tools like smartphones, text messaging, and email. Less than a third of cyberstalking is reported because most actions to halt cyberstalking appear ineffective. Instead, 69% of victims suffer emotional distress and can repeat the tale of job disruption and loss originally expressed by that young woman from Silicon Valley. Additionally, while the problem can follow someone home, the 2024 Workplace Bullying Institute survey on the state of workplace bullying found that 51% of hybrid (remote and onsite combined) workers represented the highest category for bullied workers in the United States.</span></span></p></div></blockquote><div><p style="color:inherit;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;"><br/></span></p><p style="color:inherit;"><b><span style="text-decoration-line:underline;font-size:18px;">Call to Action</span></b></p><p style="color:inherit;"><b><br/></b></p></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 40px;border:none;padding:0px;"><div><p style="color:inherit;margin-bottom:8pt;text-indent:0.5in;"><span style="font-weight:400;font-size:16px;">The first woman who contacted me relayed that the EEOC moderator's impression of the company's representatives was that they were more interested in knowing how well the stalking worked as opposed to stopping the harassment. Due to this attitude, establishing a safer technological environment using reliable legislation and strengthened EEOC laws on cyber-harassment and cyber-stalking should be a primary concern. Cyber Bullying Research, an online nonprofit studying cyber abuse, reports that 47 states have some form of law against electronic or digital abuse. However, only six state laws use the term &quot;cyberstalking.&quot; (Cyberbullying.org, accessed November 12, 2024). Organizations should also ensure workers have a safer work environment along with mechanisms for oversite to ensure stalking can be stopped. If you are being stalked, you should connect with the following organizations to seek help:&nbsp;</span></p></div><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; Victim Connect Resource Center <a href="https://victimconnect.org/" title="https://victimconnect.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://victimconnect.org/</a></span></p></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; National Domestic Violence Hotline <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" title="https://www.thehotline.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://www.thehotline.org/</a></span></p></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline&nbsp; <a href="https://rainn.org/" title="https://rainn.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://rainn.org/</a></span></p><p style="color:inherit;">·&nbsp; <span style="font-size:16px;">Social Media&nbsp;Victims Law Center <a href="https://socialmediavictims.org/" title="https://socialmediavictims.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://socialmediavictims.org/</a></span><a href="https://socialmediavictims.org/" title="https://socialmediavictims.org/" target="_blank" rel=""><br/></a></p><p style="color:inherit;"><br/></p></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><div><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:400;font-size:16px;">If you are female, you can share your harassment story with others on Right to Be. </span></p></div></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><div><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:400;font-size:16px;">https://righttobe.org/</span></p></div></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:400;font-size:16px;"><br/></span></p></blockquote><div><p style="color:inherit;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;">More resources, tips, and information can be found at:</span></p></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 40px;border:none;padding:0px;"><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; Cyber Bullying Research at <a href="https://cyberbullying.org/" title="https://cyberbullying.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://cyberbullying.org/</a></span></p></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; CyberHelp Online at: <a href="https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/" title="https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/" target="_blank" rel="">https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/</a></span></p></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;">·&nbsp; <strong>Stalking Prevention, Awareness, &amp; Resource Center (SPARC)&nbsp;</strong><strong>at </strong><a href="https://www.stalkingawareness.org/" title="https://www.stalkingawareness.org/" target="_blank" rel="">https://www.stalkingawareness.org/</a></span></p></blockquote></blockquote><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-weight:400;font-size:16px;"><br/></span></p></blockquote><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><b style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;">Dictionary of cyber-bullying terms:</span></b></p></div><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Denigration</span><span> – spreading malicious information to damage a victim's reputation </span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Doxxing </span><span>–collecting and then spreading personal information online</span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Flaming </span><span>– a perpetrator uses foul and violent language as cyberbullying in discussion rooms or chat and comment fields because specific individuals or groups convey angry and disrespectful messages online </span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">#GamerGate </span><span>– GamerGate occurred during 2014-2015 when a community of online gamers harassed three feminists critical of game elements denigrating women</span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Masquerading</span><span> – pretending to be someone else, usually the victim </span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Outing</span><span>– outing is a form of doxing – sharing your personal information online</span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Swatting</span><span> – Using personal information to file reports or emergency responses from the police on a targeted individual</span></span></p></div><div style="line-height:2;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:bold;">Trolling</span><span style="font-size:16px;font-weight:400;"> – fishing for a reaction online by leaving negative comments</span></p></div></blockquote><div style="line-height:2;"><div><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;"><br/></span></div><span style="font-size:12px;"><p style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:18px;">&nbsp;<span style="color:inherit;font-weight:bold;">References</span></span></p></span></div><blockquote style="margin-left:40px;border:none;"><div style="line-height:2;"><ul><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">Brown, A., Gibson, M. &amp; Short, M. (2017). Modes of cyberstalking and cyberharassment: Measuring the negative effects in the lives of victims in the UK. Annual Review of Cybertherapy and Telemedicine, 57-63.</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">Cross, K. (2019). Toward a formal sociology of online harassment. Human Technology, 15(3), 326-346. DOI: 10.17011/ht/urn.201911265023</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">Cyber Bullying Research Center (2024). https://cyberbullying.org/</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">de Roos, M.S., Veldhuizen-Ochodnicanova’, &amp; Hanna, A. (2014). The angry echo chamber: A study of extremist and emotional language changes in incel communities over time. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 39(21-22), 4573-4597</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">Floros, G. &amp; Mylona, I. (2022). Association of cyberbullying and Internet use disorder. Current Addiction Reports, (, 575-588. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1007/s40429-022-00440-9" title="https://doi.org/10.1007/s40429-022-00440-9" target="_blank" rel="">https://doi.org/10.1007/s40429-022-00440-9</a></span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;font-weight:400;">Niebor, D. &amp; Foxman, M. (2018). Chapter 6. Mainstreaming misogyny: The beginning of the end and the end of the beginning in Gamergate coverage. In J.R. Vickery, T. Everbach, (2018). Mediating misogyny. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-72917-6_6" title="https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-72917-6_6" target="_blank" rel="">https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-72917-6_6</a></span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;">Piotrowski, C. (2012). From workplace bullying to cyberbullying: The enigma of e-harassment in modern organizations. Organization Development Journal, 30(4), 44-53.</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;">Rao, M. E. &amp; Rao, D. M. (2021). The mental health of high school students during the COVID-19 PANDEMIC. Frontiers in Education, 6, 719539. DOI: 10.3389/feduc.2021.719539</span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;">Sheridan, M. (2024, October 1). The latest cyberstalking statistics for 2024. SafeHome.org </span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;">Smith, P.K., Mahdavi, J., Carvalho, M., Fisher, S., Russell, S. and Tippett, N. (2008), Cyberbullying: its nature and impact in secondary school pupils. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 49: 376-385.&nbsp;<a href="https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2007.01846.x" title="https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2007.01846.x" target="_blank" rel="">https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2007.01846.x</a></span></li><li style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12px;">Workplace Bullying Institute (2024). 2024 Workplace Bullying Survey, https://workplacebullying.org/wbi-research/</span></li></ul></div></blockquote></div>
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</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2025 05:18:41 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Celebrating 34 Years of Workplace Bullying Awareness and Collaboration]]></title><link>https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/blogs/post/Celebrating-34-Years-of-Workplace-Bullying-Awareness-and-Collaboration</link><description><![CDATA[<img align="left" hspace="5" src="https://www.essentialbusinessbehaviors.com/images/NeutralFreedomWeek.jpg"/>A look at how far we have come in 34 years, while acknowledging the work ahead.]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_sNjg5x_mTrSRWqhrGDlJKQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_D0TFckqPTsi6KMAr_C7KrQ" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_9CPVR8jhS06isTbxC6lcWg" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_TD87ACMqS86DNId5iLQNCw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_TD87ACMqS86DNId5iLQNCw"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;color:inherit;">The words “workplace bullying” were first coined by Andrea Adams, a British journalist and broadcaster, in 1989, after her radio broadcast, “An Abuse of Power,” was flooded with mail from listeners. The words first appeared in print in 1992 when Andrea published her book </span><i style="font-size:12pt;color:inherit;">Bullying at Work: How to Confront and Overcome It</i><span style="font-size:12pt;color:inherit;">. This year marks 34 years since the unnecessary and harmful abuse received by workers targeted by bullies at work was first identified.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;color:inherit;"><br></span></p><div style="color:inherit;"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">I support targeted workers (Targets) and speak out to educate others on workplace bullying. I have done so since first being a bystander to bullying in a large Silicon Valley law firm in 1998. This event was so disturbing that it caused me to return to school to study the how and why of the bullying phenomenon in organizations. (Someone had died of natural causes off-duty, but a supervisor was being blamed for the death in order to ruin her chances for advancement.) Then, after I graduated with honors with a dual degree, I was bullied and blocked from working during the Great Recession by a renowned epidemiologist, then bullied again by my in-laws during graduate school, and then again as a freelance consultant. In each case, the relationship deteriorated from friendly and seemingly supportive to a living hell. Even though I repeatedly asked others for help, there was none available from those bystanders who could have done something to minimize the pain and financial damage by speaking out or admitting that they at least saw what was going on. Unfortunately, my story is not that unusual, and we need to work harder to change the ability of bystanders to feel safe to help others in this kind of distress.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Finding an attorney who understood the trauma and damage that I was facing was nearly impossible. Hardly anyone knew or understood what the problem really was, and two attorneys wanted to blame me for what had occurred. Other than Dr. Gary Namie, hardly anyone was talking about the issue in the United States, and most people did not understand it or the shame the abuser forced onto the Target. It was not until the California training law was passed in 2014, that I even dared to think I could talk about what had happened to me for fear of negatively branding myself. I am sure I was not alone in this predicament. </span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">There are now employment attorneys who will defend the Target, and there is an increasing understanding of the damage that stress-related bullying does to the brain and the body. A mandatory training law exists in California, and there has also been a concerted effort to pass a psychological safety work bill in Massachusetts and Oregon. There is also increasing awareness and laws against childhood bullying – David’s law – SB 179 – was passed in Texas in 2017, and Alaska statutes </span><em><span style="font-size:12pt;">14.33.200-14.33.250</span></em><span style="font-size:12pt;"> were signed into law in 2006. </span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Additional support groups have sprung up to help those being bullied. But most of all, groups of individuals, like the Workplace Bullying Institute, the </span><span style="font-size:12pt;">International Association on Workplace Bullying and Harassment, the Canadian Institute of Workplace Bullying Resources, </span><span style="font-size:12pt;">Dignity at Work, Academic Parity, #bulliedtoo, and others, are coming together to speak out against the abuse in the workplace that targets the best employees and the hardest workers. In other words, together, we have made progress. Those of us who have worked for and supported this progress need to take a moment to celebrate how far this issue has come from total obscurity.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Then, of course, we need to carry on with exposing the real irony – which is -- we still do not have a law or clear recourse against this devastatingly harmful behavior. The commonality of the abuse and the resultant damage – financial, emotional, and physical – are eerily similar in each and every case – no matter where the abuse occurs. Still, nothing is done by those in power who say they want engaged employees without doing anything to protect those who are already engaged. That lack of protection sends a very loud message to American workers. Even though we follow an individual social and political doctrine, by allowing this type of abuse to continue, we tell certain workers that they are not valued – no matter what they bring to the table, and we tell other workers that they will always be protected – no matter what harm and chaos they bring. And by unquestionably allowing this disrespect and lack of concern, we also ruin the American dream for those individuals who have worked hard to try to attain it.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">We are moving forward from this month to year 35 in promoting workplace bullying awareness. Our numbers are growing, and our voices are getting louder every day. Those who are joining together to stand against this abuse need to be seen as the heroes they are. I applaud them all, and someday, their efforts to make things better for workers everywhere will be recognized and celebrated. Until then, I invite you to help us reach the finish line and embrace healthier and safer workplaces for everyone.&nbsp; Please write to your representative and ask for their support to prevent workplace bullying.</span></p></div></div>
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</div><div data-element-id="elm_oyA6yEd3Q0KsYuFB9qvTQA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_oyA6yEd3Q0KsYuFB9qvTQA"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><div style="color:inherit;"><p style="text-align:left;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;W<span style="color:inherit;">hen others&nbsp;</span><span style="color:inherit;">were playing, they would stop if they saw Frodo because if he joined in, someone would get hurt.&nbsp; He attacked the visiting cartoonist, Gary Larsen.&nbsp; At his&nbsp;</span><span style="color:inherit;">worse, he threw rocks and snatched and killed a human baby.&nbsp; He also threatened Jane Goodall, the woman who had been studying him his entire life (JaneGoodall.org, 09/29/2015).&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;For 56 years, Jane Goodall lived with chimpanzees like Frodo in the Gombe National Park of Tanzania.&nbsp; Jane not only named her subjects but also developed relationships with them. During her long years in the field, she described their individual personalities in detail in several of her books and in the films of her photographer ex-husband, Hugo van Lawick.&nbsp; Many of Jane's recorded observations of the social relationships and behaviors of the Gombe chimpanzees allowed her to make groundbreaking discoveries about our connections with the great ape species, including tool use, eating meat, and displaying human-like emotions in inter-species relationships.&nbsp; During Jane's tenure, she saw births, deaths, and hierarchical dominance played out among males and females.&nbsp; She also saw the original tribe split in two and wage war with each other.&nbsp; This “Four Year War” also revealed aggressive behaviors, as well as the details about two particularly violent females – Passion and her daughter Pom—who killed other mothers and infants without provocation in their own community, </p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:5pt;">Their goal was to seize the infants and eat them. In other words, they showed cannibalistic behavior. Between them they may have killed all 10 infants born during a two-year period. The attacks only stopped when both Passion and Pom delivered babies of their own…&nbsp; We still do not totally understand this unpleasant behavior. I felt I hated Passion and Pom at the time. Unfortunately, we have seen the same behavior in other mothers over the succeeding years. These violent behaviours – boundary attacks, the Four Year War and cannibalism – forever changed my view of chimpanzees: I had thought they were so like us, but nicer. This turned out not to be true – but it is almost certain that chimpanzees cannot fully comprehend the pain and suffering they inflicted on their victims. Nor can they plan physical and mental torture. Only we are capable of true evil (JaneGoodall.org. (07/20/2015).</p><p style="text-align:left;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Dominance in the Gombe chimpanzee tribe was linked to status, and with that status came better access to food and sex.&nbsp; A 2014 study of the offspring born between 1995 and 2003 confirmed this underlying motivation when it was found that the dominant and more aggressive chimps had fathered more babies.&nbsp; </p><p style="text-align:left;text-indent:0.5in;">These findings lead researchers to suggest that long-term intimidation tactics offered what may have been the first genetic evidence of sexual coercion as an adaptive strategy in any social mammal (Feldblum et al., 2014). As an explanation of our animal past, these chimpanzees indicate that bullyingmay have been encoded during evolutionary development as a reproductive means of survival.&nbsp; This adaptive strategy has also been suggested as narcissism's evolutionary root (Holtzman &amp; Donnellan, 2015).&nbsp; </p><p style="text-align:left;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><b>References</b></p><p style="text-align:left;">Feldblum, J. T., Wroblewski, E. E., Rudicell, R. S., Hahn, B. H., Paiva, T., Cetinkaya-Rundel, M., Pusey, A. E., &amp; Gilby, I.&nbsp;(2014).&nbsp;Sexually coercive male chimpanzees sire more offspring.&nbsp;<em>Current Biology</em>,&nbsp;<em>24</em>(23), 2855-2860.&nbsp;https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cub.2014.10.039</p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-weight:bold;">JaneGoodall.org. (09/29/2015).&nbsp; https:// news.janegoodall.org/2015/09/29/the-famous-chimps-of-gombe/7</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-weight:bold;">JaneGoodall.org. (07/20/2015).&nbsp; <a href="http://news.janegoodall.org/2015/07/20/55-years-at-gombe-qa-with-jane-on-origins-of-life-work/">http://news.janegoodall.org/2015/07/20/55-years-at-gombe-qa-with-jane-on-origins-of-life-work/</a></span></p><span style="font-size:12pt;"><div style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;color:inherit;">Holtzman, N. S., &amp; Donnellan, M. B. (2015). The roots of narcissus: Old and new models of the evolution of narcissism. In V. Zeigler-Hill, L. L. M. Welling, &amp; T. K. Shackelford&nbsp;</span></div></span></div></div>
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<div data-element-id="elm_z91dvPfhQM2m4V2O-V3Xaw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_z91dvPfhQM2m4V2O-V3Xaw"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center " data-editor="true"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;line-height:1.5;"><div style="color:inherit;"><p align="center" style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">Workplace bullying is &quot;repeated mistreatment; abusive conduct that is threatening, intimidating, or humiliating; work sabotage or verbal abuse.&quot; (Workplace Bullying Institute, 2021). During the Covid-19 Pandemic, while many workers toiled from home, The Workplace Bullying Institute's 2021 survey found that 43% of remote workers felt bullied. While efforts are being made in several states to pass legislation against bullying, the only state law we have is </span><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">California law (Government Code section 12950.1) which </span><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">instituted a bullying awareness training law in 2015 through AB2053.</span><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">This law </span><span style="font-size:14pt;">requires that&nbsp;all California employers of 5 or more workers train their employees regarding sexual harassment and abusive conduct prevention. Every two years, non-supervisory employees must receive 1 hour of training, and supervisors must receive 2 hours of training. While sexual harassment is a form of abuse and bullying at work, workplace bullying training is often tacked on at the end, leaving much about the phenomenon unaddressed. </span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">Further, the text of current law uses criteria to define “abusive conduct” (AKA bullying) that cannot be established in most cases. The law says, </span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;"><br></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 40px;border:none;padding:0px;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;line-height:1.5;"><div style="color:inherit;"><p style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">For purposes of this section, “abusive conduct” means conduct of an employer or employee in the workplace, with malice, that a reasonable person would find hostile, offensive, and unrelated to an employer's legitimate business interests.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><span style="font-size:14pt;"><br></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></blockquote><span style="text-align:left;color:inherit;font-size:14pt;"><div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">The problem with this law is contained in the words “with malice.” Performing an act &quot;with malice&quot; means there is deliberate aforethought and intention to the conduct. For those of us who have been bullied by the experienced narcissist in the office setting, the general disposition of the person enacting the harm may seem like constant malice. Still, the actual proof of the behavior may not rise to a legal threshold for prosecution.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">Due to this issue which leaves most targeted workers “out in the cold,” </span><span style="color:inherit;font-size:14pt;">Dr. David Yamada, the author of the first workplace bullying law, has further modified the Healthy Workplace Bill.</span></div></span><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;"><div style="color:inherit;line-height:1.5;"><div style="color:inherit;"><p align="center" style="text-align:left;text-indent:0in;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">Information about the HWB can be found here:&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size:18.6667px;color:inherit;text-align:center;">&nbsp;<a href="https://healthyworkplacebill.org/" title="https://www.healthyworkplacebill.org" rel="">https://www.healthyworkplacebill.org</a></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;color:inherit;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;color:inherit;">This bill places the responsibility on the individual abuser, not the company if the company has made efforts to ensure a healthy workplace.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">If you would like to join a group working to guarantee workers’ rights against bullying under the law, the California Healthy Workplace Advocates (HWA) are seeking a California sponsor in the legislature. The California HWA was instrumental in obtaining a sponsor and legislation for AB2053, and they are working to pass the modified legislation. If you would like to join in this effort, the website address is: </span><a href="http://www.bullyfreeworkplace.org/"><span style="font-size:14pt;">http://www.bullyfreeworkplace.org</span></a></p><p style="text-align:left;"><br></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">Also, bills have been introduced in New York, Massachusetts, and West Virginia. The information is listed below so you can write to your representative if you are in those states:</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">·<span style="font-size:7pt;">&nbsp; </span>New York: A3330, sponsor Latoya Joyner; S1753, cosponsor Sen. Jessica Ramos.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">·<span style="font-size:7pt;">&nbsp; </span>Massachusetts: SD712</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">·<span style="font-size:7pt;">&nbsp; </span>West Virginia: HB 3225</span></p></div><span style="font-size:18px;"></span><p style="text-align:left;line-height:1.5;"><span style="font-size:14pt;">&nbsp;</span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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